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August 2018 Funeral Flowers 22nd April 2018 June 2018 Grave How often should you visit the grave of your loved one? A question I have asked for many years.   Personally, I have never felt the need to visit a grave and have instead always preferred to look back at photos or sit quietly and have a think about all the memories I have of that person.   By not visiting the grave has never meant that person has not been in my thoughts.   However, when Elizabeth died I have found it reassuring to visit her almost every day.   Maybe it’s because I was with her when she died, I held her after she had died and visited her in the chapel of rest.   I know that she is snuggled in her beautiful pyjamas with her favourite blanket, clutching her favourite rabbit comforter and snuggled up with bunny which matches her friends.   When I visit the grave, I can picture her looking comfy and I can imagine holding her. As we enter our 5 th month withou...